[mamadeb, if this is too risque for you, feel free to delete it.]
My husband and I were a bit more involved in the BDSM scene when we got married, and Danny was hosting a playparty about a week before the wedding, so that was our bachelors/bachelorette party. We were there together, we didn't actually do anything sexual -- in fact, we wound up learning to play bridge with some of our other friends that night...
Since most of my family was travelling long-distance and were only in town for the wedding weekend itself, we didn't have to come up with something to accomodate both kinds of people.
Before my brother/sister-in-law's wedding, separate groups of guys and gals went out to Ybor City (Tampa) just getting drinks. Nothing terribly risque among the gals, although the guys went out to a nearby strip club. *shrug* I suspect I'd've had more fun with the guys, although that would probably have weirded out my brother too much for his enjoyment.
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My husband and I were a bit more involved in the BDSM scene when we got married, and Danny was hosting a playparty about a week before the wedding, so that was our bachelors/bachelorette party. We were there together, we didn't actually do anything sexual -- in fact, we wound up learning to play bridge with some of our other friends that night...
Since most of my family was travelling long-distance and were only in town for the wedding weekend itself, we didn't have to come up with something to accomodate both kinds of people.
Before my brother/sister-in-law's wedding, separate groups of guys and gals went out to Ybor City (Tampa) just getting drinks. Nothing terribly risque among the gals, although the guys went out to a nearby strip club. *shrug* I suspect I'd've had more fun with the guys, although that would probably have weirded out my brother too much for his enjoyment.